Ok, so it's done :-)
First I wrote my own new menu manager but it wasn't so good so I drooped it. After time I just modified orginal menu manager and now it,s works! Almost works because in this moment is able only for albums, but is very simple to write it also for other, I will do it future when I have more time.
My solution is that:
menu manager adds into every link in menu unique id of album, news, page etc
on every entrance on every album, php write in cookies current date&time
next entrance php reads cookies with previous date , check updated albums and write into cookies list updated albums and also current date & time. Php also counts number updated albums and display info near logo
Jquery reads cookies and change color on red for updated album in menu
and thats all :-)
tips:
to inform visitors about new or updated albums is enougth to change updated date album on current time
time limit for news announce is one year, more time I think is no sense..
for watch and testing everybody can change in cookie "news" date for the past. For future cookie will be compressed and disabled for edit ..
So Thank You for help!